Why we can’t stop the train wreck

Hi All and Welcome back to Nikki’s corner.

Today’s topic comes because one of my friends is not happy because he saw the truth coming. He is beating himself up because the girl he likes has yet to accept that the dude she likes treats her like crap. My friend is suffering because he hates being the voice of reason.

Unfortunately, we can’t stop people’s emotional trainwrecks. If they ask us for advice, just give it truthfully and then let it go. People don’t listen and they have to experience things for themselves. It is just like when we are growing up and your parents warned you but it is our destiny as humans to experience things for ourselves.

My Heart goes out to him because he really does not want her to get hurt and she is realizing she is missing out on a great guy but can’t let the loser go. To each his own.

I just hope things may turn out different but as of now, it seems to be going to be the status quo

~ by N on December 4, 2008.