Do you have the boss from HELL?
Hi All. Welcome back to NIkki’s corner. My apologies for not posting for a few months but my life has been extremely stressful. This topic comes rom the heart because I swear I am caught in a vortex of insecure and spiteful people. I have never experienced in my whole life working for Sybil. If you don’t know who Sybil is, Sybil was a woman who was diagnosed with multiple personality disorder which means at any given minute she can go from nice to bitch in less than 30 secs. In Sybil’s case, she has a mental problem. In my case I don’t know if my bosses do, but Honestly I don’t care. You can’t treat people like garbage, yell at them in front of other people and then expect things to be ok. You wont have people respecting you and its not people will be afraid of you, they just will not care about you. While you sit atop your perch and just look down always stating, I’m the boss I’m the manager, maybe you should step back and realize you were in your staff’s shoes once. What I am slowly beginning to realize it that people are not fully trained to actually be managers. They just get promoted just depending on how well they may have done at their jobs or if somebody just liked them. I think my boss does not like me anymore but she set the tone for my behavior. I do my job but I could care less what happens to her. This is the mood I usually assume when I am tired of dealing with other people’s BS. You have to shut yourself down and just roll with it. If you dont, you will always let it eat at you. This is also one of the reasons why I blog. Helps get it off my chest. As for this current situation, im leaving it in God’s hands and when my time to go, it will present itself. Right now, im just annoyed but soon it will turn to not caring.
Peace
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Oh how I have been in your shoes. Tyrant bosses who yell at loud as they can in your face using the F word etc… When they find out they were wrong in the accusations….Never any apologies. If fact they expect you to apologize to them for the way they behaved. They felt that yelling at you in front of your peers reinforced their points. I had to get outta there and leave them to their sorry misery.
She is probably severely bi-polar or worse schizophrenic – If you have a small mp3 recorder its your best bet – leaving it on (around your neck) or on the desk and calmly recording her tirades – at least you will have some back up when you file for the order of protection!