Are you in Love or in Lust?

Hi all and Welcome back to Nikki’s Corner. This topic is one I’m sure all of us have experienced in our lives. We sometimes think we can’t differentiate between love and lust but you can. Lust is primal and love is not. Lust awakens your loins and makes you do shit you may have to explain to someone or yourself later. Love is a series of emotions that facilitate caring and sharing for individuals. Love comes in many forms (family, friends, Boyfriend, girlfriend, Husband , wife). Lust has one form. Pure sexual energy that must be satisfied and fulfilled. These lil definitions should at least help you figure out the traits. Now I can say with all honestly, I love and lust for my hubby at the same time. I love him for what he is and and what he does to make himself a better person but I lust for him at any given time because  I am a sexual being and he fulfills my needs. 

As humans, we see people who with lust for and that usually how you judge who you deal with cause you can only really judge on what you see especially if you have not had a conversation with them yet. As for those they say, they have had love at first sight, I don’t all the way discount it because that is possible but believe there is a hint of lust in there.  Humans lust for others all the time. Think about who in Hollywood you wish was yours, the guy or girl you work with who find extremely attractive. Lusting is natural and healthy. It only becomes unhealthy if you are supposed to be in love, yet you let lust cause you to cheat and until the day they start putting P*&%Y and Dick in the streets where people can just fall on them and start f&^king, nothing just happens. People are too thinking and too calculating for that. Try those excuses on someone with a kindergarten education cause Kids are getting smarter these days.  I think now everyone has a clear understanding of love and lust, Right?

That’s it for now

 

Smooches,

Nikki

~ by N on May 18, 2008.