Today’s Topic: Why Stalking and Harassing someone you were involved with is such not a good idea
Hi All and welcome to Nikki’s Corner. Today’s topic comes from a discussion I had with my mom yesterday about another blog I read. Please understand this is really not a joke. I have read and heard terrible stories about people losing their lives because people can’t get over people breaking up with them.
First, yes being broken up with sucks. There is no way to sugar coat and I really would not want to. It can be a really bad time in which your emotions are swirling around and you are confused. Cry your eyes out. Beat up your pillow and rip up all the pictures or delete(hey this is the internet/computer age) and take a long bath or a long shower.
Second, thoughts of revenge and reprecussions will float up to the top. Let the thoughts bubble then let them pop. The best revenge is living well and loving yourself. There are entirely too many people on this planet so there is more than one soulmate. Also realize, we do not come into this world with anyone but ourselves and this is how we leave it. The reason people leave our lives can vary but they fact is, they were supposed to go.
What does stalking or harassing your ex get you? Let’s think about the law shall we. One, order of protection. Do you really want to have something like that on your record? Let’s think people. we all gotta work and they do on applications if you committed a crime and since they can delve into anything, you know something like that can make you look a lil off. Two, why run up your phone bill and text msging bill. Now before someone says, well its included in my mins and phone plan, why exactly would you waste time on bothering someone who doesn’t want you anymore? No matter what you think, it will make you look crazy and will only affirm their decision to leave your psycho ass.
Do yourselves a favor. Take their numbers out your phone. Take them off all your buddy lists whether IM’s, Myspace, facebook, HI5, linked in etc. Out of sight out of mind. Remember, you have things going on for you that possibly the other person did not appreciate. Also, if you notice a trend that you are always getting dumped, it is time for s self- assessment. I know we don’t like taking that ” inner” journey but sometimes it needs to be done. Also, try your best not to worry about what they are doing because they are certainly not worrying about your ass.
That’s it for now.
Smooches,
Nikki 
My own experience has been obsessing about the ex is “better” than actually taking the time to get to know and love yourself. I use quotation marks because the opposite is actually the best thing when a relationship ends – it’s critical for you to pamper yourself. I totally agree with Nikki on just letting the emotions surface and “pop” – that is really the ONLY way to move past the relationship. Stalking/obsessing/harassing/begging for the person to come back NEVER works – the best thing you can do for yourself is to stay away from alcohol, stay away from the ex, and surround yourself with friends and family.
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